Thomas J. “Tom” Becker

Thomas J. “Tom” Becker, age 80, of Dubuque, IA, completed his earthly journey on May 26, 2025, at MercyOne in Dubuque while surrounded by his loving family.  To honor Tom’s life, a private family Celebration of Life will be held at a later date.  The Tri-State Cremation Center is humbly serving Tom’s family.

Tom was born on December 9, 1944, in Dubuque, IA, a son to Joseph and Margaret (Leppert) Becker.

A man of strength and dedication, Tom was the foundation of his family. He worked tirelessly throughout his life, often holding two jobs to ensure his family never went without. His work ethic was unmatched, but he never let it get in the way of what mattered most to him, his loved ones.

Tom had a gift for cooking that brought the family together around the table. Whether it was a holiday feast or a simple dinner, the meals he prepared were truly made with love.

Tom had a deep appreciation for the outdoors and found joy in hunting and fishing, a passion he loved sharing with his children and grandchildren. He also had a deep love for country music, which reflected his values of strong family ties, love, and hard work. 

Throughout the years, he loved watching and attending NASCAR races and cheering for his favorite driver, Bill Elliott. His love for family extended beyond everyday moments to countless vacations and memorable trips.

Tom had a natural warmth and loved a good conversation, able to talk to anyone he encountered. He was always ready to share a story or lend a hand. 

He was a devoted husband, a loving father, a cherished friend, a loyal brother, and a wonderful grandfather and great-grandfather. He loved his wife, Lois, with all his heart, and they were married for nearly 60 years. Being a father and grandfather was one of the greatest joys of Tom’s life.

Known for his honesty and fairness, Tom’s genuine spirit touched the hearts of many. He will be deeply missed and forever remembered.

Those left to cherish the memory of Tom include,

his two sons,

Brian (Tammy) Becker, Dubuque, IA,

and Randy (Michelle) Becker, Mitchell, S.D.;

his six adored grandchildren,

Adam (Chloe) Becker, Autumn (Tyler) Ernzen, Dakota Becker, Alyssa Becker, Kira Hunter, and Nathan Hunter;

his four great-grandchildren,

Ozzie Ernzen, Gianna Becker, Isabella Becker, and Gabby Becker;

his sister,

Kathy (Merlin) Dalsing, Hazel Green, WI;

along with numerous extended family, friends, and neighbors.

Tom was preceded in death by his parents; his loving wife of almost 60 years, Lois Becker; and his brother, David (Ginnie) Becker.

Tom’s family would like to thank Dr. Finch, along with the nurses and staff at Mercy Hospital, especially Shelly, for all of their professional and compassionate care.

Online condolences may be shared with Tom’s family at www.tristatecremationcenter.com